1. New Year Eve's Guy - I had talked about him earlier... He came to my house one night, we slept together, had our fun, met again few times, went on an unofficial date once and then went missing for few days... The whole story is from my previous posts HAHAHAHA!!!
2. Filipino Guy - Knew this guy from Facebook as he suddenly add me as friend... From his profile, he is a hot guy and good looking... He said that he is a model in Philippines and will be visiting Singapore around early this year... We had chat for few days and I felt nice chatting with him all along... We talk about workout and diet since he is a model... Everything was doing fine until one night, he asked for video call...
Honestly speaking, I was not really into video call that night and he kept asking me "Can I trust you?"... I mean, of course you can trust me and hence the first time we video call, he was sitting on his chair shirtless... At that time, he just turn on the camera and it was somehow muted.... I thought we have connection problem and unable to hear each other so before our second video call, he say that he is completely naked and he want something which I knew what it is... I agreed and once we on our 2nd video call, we exposed ourselves... I did not want to cum so I just stroke while looking at him... It went on for like 15 mins and he cummed from the video call... We stopped the video call and as usual, I ask him how was it and he was pouring all the compliments on me saying that I am hot and stuff... I was so glad he enjoyed it...
Little did I know, he say that he had a surprise for me and send me a video of me jerking off... He secretly recorded my act through the video call... He started to blackmail me with the video and he shared the video to few of my Facebook friend list (he create a group and added me and a list of people with the video link)... Obviously, I was in an extreme panic and I do not know what to do since this is my first time encountering such problem... The first thing I did was begging him to remove the video link from Facebook immediately... He kept asking me to transfer an amount of money but I was too confused and I do not have as much as what he requested so I kept bargaining with him... During that time, I was totally devastated and in pure confusion with fear deep inside me... I do not know what to reach to, nor who I know of can help... I was in constant fear and suddenly, the New Year Eve's Guy dropped me a message... It was around 11pm and I never expect he was still awake... The moment I knew he was still awake, I immediately ask him for a video call and explain everything to him...
In my entire life, I can honestly say that I owed him one big favour... He help me confronted the Filipino Guy since the Filipino Guy requested to have a video call... So I invited the Filipino Guy into the video call of me with the New Year Eve's Guy and I let the New Year Eve's Guy do the talking and everything... I muted and turn off the camera and just let them talk... Thankfully, New Year Eve's Guy really did a great job in inflicting fear to the Filipino Guy and halfway of the video call, the Filipino Guy left the video call... At that point, I know New Year Eve's Guy had completely saved my life... He told me to ignore whatever the Filipino Guy asking for since he can't do any harm to me... The Filipino Guy kept bugging me and I start to block all his contacts... He used a new number to message me and I blocked all of it as well... It was a hell of a night for me... I continue chatted with New Year Eve's Guy for awhile and went to sleep...
In the next morning, I did not receive anything from the Filipino Guy... I decided to deactivate all my social medias that the Filipino Guy had added me so he could not get any more information... After that, I kept myself away from social media for 5 days until everything has settled down, then I slowly reactivate back my social medias...Since then, everything was calm and I knew that the nightmare has passed...
The lesson that I learnt here is, regardless of how nice someone treated you, never fucking ever agreed for a naked video call... Just say NO!!!
3. Missed my University mate's Wedding Dinner - Because of the incident with the New Year Eve's Guy, I totally forgotten about the wedding dinner that I should be attending the next day... I was totally in chaos at that moment and it never came across my mind and I felt extremely bad that I missed his dinner... I felt so bad and speechless that I don't even want to cover myself about it... I really hope he will forgive me...
4. STD - This was rather a surprising situation where I never expect to occur... So one day, I notice that there is an abnormal spot under my foreskin which I never seen before... I did some research on Syphilis but somehow the description was not similar to what I am having... After 2 weeks, it has developed so much that I feel it is very likely to be Syphilis... Therefore, 2 days before CNY, I decided to consult a doctor and she confirmed that it was indeed Syphilis after examining my symptom... I requested for the treatment on that day itself even before I have tested positive for Syphilis... Like few hours after my treatment, which is an injection of penicillin on my butt, at my own home, I suddenly felt unwell... In the next moment, I was bedridden with a serious coldness and high fever (the treatment does causes fever) and I had to take a Panadol to control my fever... I was on my bed for 4 to 5 hours that day while trying to force myself to sweat... After sweating, I felt a lot better and this means that the treatment is taking its effect on my body... Now, I have to abstain from sex until my symptom is completely gone and after that, all my sex have to be a protected one HAHAHAHAHA!!!
5. Chinese New Year Eve's Car Tragedy - Was fetching my brother and mom back home and at a junction, I kissed a car's butt lightly... It wasn't a bad accident but the victim's car boot have its hook dislodge, causing it not to shut tight while I have a minor damage on my front bumper and a minor cracked car plate... Obviously, it was my fault and I agreed to pay for his repair... As it was CNY the next day, most likely there are no workshops opening for the next few days... We kept in touch and got it settled eventually the week after...
So there it is... My miserable January 2022 which is by far the worst I ever had experience in my life... I am not complaining about my life since I think that what had happened gives me a valuable lesson so I will not make the same mistake again in the future... Of course, it was a hellish period but now I had gone through it, starting my new life in the month of February... So far, things are going well and great... All I can say is, cherish what I have now and enjoy my life forward... Let the past be the past...
To everyone, please stay happy and healthy always :D
