Sunday, February 28, 2016

Does Getting Married Matters???

Around this age, you will tend to see your friends or cousins within same age group getting married... Well... It does not affects me at all as I am personally not ready and committed for one... Don't even talk about getting married, I am still single now =.=

So now the questions: Is it necessary to get married??? What is the different between getting married and not??? The one and only reason that I can think of about getting married is for offsprings... I mean, you don't simply impregnate a random girl just because you want your kids right??? In this society, even if you do, you are required to marry the girl that is pregnant... In the end, you are getting married just because of the offspring...

Some says that when you get old, at least someone will accompany you, or maybe your kids besides having your wife... But I feel that if we take good care of ourselves when we get older, it won't be any issue to continue living... This type of feeling is tough to describe... I guess people like me will only understands lol...

Too lazy to type this long... Time to sum up my blog for today...



Too busy with my life... Hence, lesser time to blog... What's important is I am happy with my current life :)

Sunday, February 21, 2016

The Hunt Is On...

Felt more confident in finding a house that I want... Not for now but maybe in another 2 months... That's where I can see my real income and I really hope that nothing bad will happen from there onwards...

I really need to like hold on just for another 2 months... It sounds tough but at the same time, I must do it in order to achieve what I want... This year will be a good year for me to start and that is what I am aiming towards...

Oh by the way, April itself is the month I am eagerly waiting for... Utada's new single and Perfume's COSMIC EXPLORER album... One heck of a month that I can't wait :)



LET''S DO THIS!!!

Sunday, February 14, 2016

And The Holiday Ends...

It was all fun, happy and pure excitement during CNY because we will be having a long holiday... However, it tend to end one day and that would be today for me... Not gonna be sad because of the holiday but thinking about my work... Guess that is the life of being an adult??? Being troubled by work every day and it doesn't sounds right at all...

To be frank, I am not happy with the new company due to:
1. Not many people which I can talk with... The boss himself is self-centered workaholic which is not so suitable for me...
2. Constant pressure of works... Though this is absolutely normal but not normal when your boss is the type of person which constantly cares about the results of the work and not about their feelings...
3. The office environment is all about work... Never feel the atmosphere of the office to be "fun to work in"...

However, there is one thing that drives me to be happy:
1. Bunch of things for me to learn!!!
2. Well... Pay of course...

And I don't think I will stay in this company longer than 2 years lol...



HUATTT AHHHH~~~ Holiday ended doesn't mean CNY has ended!!! xD

Monday, February 8, 2016

Dong Dong Chiang!!!

Well is another year now... Another year for Chinese calendar... Hence, I would like to wish everyone  a healthy and wealthy year ahead :)



GONG XI FA CAI~~~ HUATTT AHHHHHH~~~~~~

Tuesday, February 2, 2016

Life About Friends...

As I grew older, I notice that I am being more selective with friends... I couldn't deny the fact that the friends that I used to hang out with turns out to be a group of friends that I reluctant to get close to anymore... Here are some stories to it:

The first group: My other group of high school friends (I have 2 groups of high school friend... Luckily, there is a group which I am still close with)... They are my group of intelligent, active, and rich group of friends... Putting wealth aside, this first group are the extrovert type of group I would say but I was very close with them maybe because we get along well... I might be the only introvert in this group but I don't see any problems hanging out with them... Eventually, I stopped hanging out with them is because they joined another group of friends which is from the same high school but I am not close with... Though I know the other group of people but I am not fond with joining them (I do dislike few people from the other group to be frank)... In fact when they hang out together, I was not invited most of the time so it turns out that this group becomes their group rather than our group... And slowly, I was no longer be part of their group...

The second group: My university group of friends... Although we still have an active group chat, but things were not as fun as how it used to be... We were enjoying WoW during that time... Played Dragonica together and even DotA together almost every week... Eventually my outing with them deteriorates because I felt that everytime when I go out with them, I will just sit alone by myself while they talk about their things which I don't even understand... Is like the group that I used to talk about games turns out to be entirely a different group which I have no place to join in their conversation and this gives me the discomfort... I don't hate them and I still discuss with them through the group... However, going out with them is already not an option for me since they rarely invite me when there is an outing...

The last group: This is not a group but more to an individual... This ex-colleague of mine which I thought I was close enough with him during the early days turns out to be the most disappointing friendship that I have ever been through... First of all, he did something unforgivable where he lied about his availability when I invited him to go out... If he told me that he was not free, I am still OK with it until I see those pictures of him... He told me that he was too lazy to go out when I invited him but the next few hours he appeared at somewhere??? This was the first time and I just let it slip... Then, the second time happens... Invited him for breakfast together since Friday but he decline and he is the one that suggested Monday instead... OK fine so as Monday comes, he told me that he can't wake up on time and say that he could not make it so I suggest Tuesday... If he is the type of person that appreciate my friendship, I believe at least he will try his best to make it for the next day but the truth is nope... He still gave me the same reason, unable to wake up on time... If I honor this friendship, I will sleep earlier just to meet up with that person the next morning, considering it as a once in a while meet up... However, if you declined my intentions like this, please remember that you will never ever get invited from me again forever... Unless you ask for it then I will reconsider... And that's all for today...

Wow what a long story I just wrote... I guess I have reached a new milestone of blogging lol... Gotta sleep now as I need to be in top notch condition for CNY...



Can't wait for CNY :)