OK I know I just posted something like not long ago but something unfavourable occurs to me in the same day... I don't always complain but this one really needs to be highlighted...
So yesterday (2nd Feb), I did an online interview and everything went well for me... I am confident as usual during the online interview, meanwhile the interviewer is quite carefree, which I don't mind... After the interview ends, the interviewer drops me a massage in WhatsApp cause he say is for easy communication... But everything starts to become weird when he message me the next thing, which is do I workout???
To simplified this, our conversation is purely about our physical bodies... We shared some arms pictures (he is totally obssessed with arm wrestling) and talk about fitness, to an extent where we ended up meeting at the interviewer's condo for a workout... The way he looks at me feels like he have interest on my body (I can tell clearly) and he was a little bit reluctant or shy which I understand... After a short workout, we ended up arm wrestling with each other... Just to add, during the workout, he has the tendency to touch my arms (he obviously love big arms) and while we were resting from arm wrestling, he loves to move his chest for no reason... To me, that is an obvious sign of seduction... He tend to stare at my arm and chest most of the time... I really do not know what is his intention during my whole time being there, but for me, I was hoping that I have a chance to know him better since he is quite cute and good looking...
After I reached home, everything went downhill when I was trying to joke with him that I may not be able to pin his arm down (from arm wrestling), but I definitely can pin him on the bed... I purposely say that just to test him out to see if he is really interested on me and based on the reply, he is being obvious when he deleted a message and reply that he is only interested in arm wrestling...
I showed my true side and if he is not interested, I am OK with it... However, he is very persistent in chatting with me as if wanting to get close to me... For what reason, I really have no idea at this point... And the worst thing is, the interview was yesterday and today morning (around 10am), I received his email that I did not pass the screening test... Is this even normal for a HR to filter the candidates this fast??? Don't they need at least 2 or 3 days instead of less than a day??? By this, I questioned myself a little, did he failed me because I show my true self??? And since you are the one that wants to chat with me so badly, shouldn't he message me and tell me that I did not pass it???
Honestly, I find this a little bit ridiculous... I may be overthinking but failing on the screening stage in less than 24 hours??? I really could not accept this logic... Right now, I have no idea what he is even thinking about, and more importantly is, I should take a step back away from him since everything does not sums up correctly...
Seems like the jobs that I want can never be mine...
