As I grew older, I notice that I am being more selective with friends... I couldn't deny the fact that the friends that I used to hang out with turns out to be a group of friends that I reluctant to get close to anymore... Here are some stories to it:
The first group: My other group of high school friends (I have 2 groups of high school friend... Luckily, there is a group which I am still close with)... They are my group of intelligent, active, and rich group of friends... Putting wealth aside, this first group are the extrovert type of group I would say but I was very close with them maybe because we get along well... I might be the only introvert in this group but I don't see any problems hanging out with them... Eventually, I stopped hanging out with them is because they joined another group of friends which is from the same high school but I am not close with... Though I know the other group of people but I am not fond with joining them (I do dislike few people from the other group to be frank)... In fact when they hang out together, I was not invited most of the time so it turns out that this group becomes their group rather than our group... And slowly, I was no longer be part of their group...
The second group: My university group of friends... Although we still have an active group chat, but things were not as fun as how it used to be... We were enjoying WoW during that time... Played Dragonica together and even DotA together almost every week... Eventually my outing with them deteriorates because I felt that everytime when I go out with them, I will just sit alone by myself while they talk about their things which I don't even understand... Is like the group that I used to talk about games turns out to be entirely a different group which I have no place to join in their conversation and this gives me the discomfort... I don't hate them and I still discuss with them through the group... However, going out with them is already not an option for me since they rarely invite me when there is an outing...
The last group: This is not a group but more to an individual... This ex-colleague of mine which I thought I was close enough with him during the early days turns out to be the most disappointing friendship that I have ever been through... First of all, he did something unforgivable where he lied about his availability when I invited him to go out... If he told me that he was not free, I am still OK with it until I see those pictures of him... He told me that he was too lazy to go out when I invited him but the next few hours he appeared at somewhere??? This was the first time and I just let it slip... Then, the second time happens... Invited him for breakfast together since Friday but he decline and he is the one that suggested Monday instead... OK fine so as Monday comes, he told me that he can't wake up on time and say that he could not make it so I suggest Tuesday... If he is the type of person that appreciate my friendship, I believe at least he will try his best to make it for the next day but the truth is nope... He still gave me the same reason, unable to wake up on time... If I honor this friendship, I will sleep earlier just to meet up with that person the next morning, considering it as a once in a while meet up... However, if you declined my intentions like this, please remember that you will never ever get invited from me again forever... Unless you ask for it then I will reconsider... And that's all for today...
Wow what a long story I just wrote... I guess I have reached a new milestone of blogging lol... Gotta sleep now as I need to be in top notch condition for CNY...
Can't wait for CNY :)
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